In this season of uncertainty and change, we have a unique opportunity to create new ways of connecting with people who think differently. It’s time to bridge our differences, not through debate, but by embracing our shared humanity. The challenge for each of us is to honor differences while building a bridge to connect us all. We know it’s easier said than done—we are only human, after all.
There is humanity in all of us and not just the illusion of it.”
~Abigail George
At the core of our humanity lies the capacity for emotion, learning, curiosity, empathy, and the need for connection. At HumanityWorks, we are passionate about fostering this connection. It’s a mindset where differences aren’t obstacles but opportunities to grow and evolve together.
How Do You Bridge Differences and Build Connection?
True connection is not about convincing others that you’re right. It’s about understanding them. And understanding takes patience—a quality that doesn’t always come easily. Patience is found in the pause, the moment you suspend judgment to see a situation from another perspective. Pausing lets you consider new options, see things from different angles, and, most importantly, get in touch with the other person.
When we face challenges, our instinct is often to react defensively to protect ourselves. It’s hard to stay present when emotions are high, but staying in relationship through tough moments is crucial. Even when it feels personal, sticking with the conversation can lead to deeper meaning, connection, and understanding.
Patience Creates Perspective, and Perspective Leads to Acceptance
To understand another person, ask yourself: What’s happening for them? What do I need to understand? What’s my role here? How can I help them feel seen? It’s not about asserting your view but about recognizing theirs. Acceptance enriches interactions, broadens understanding, and deepens relationships.
Here’s Your Challenge:
1. Release the Need to Be Right
Step away from defending your stance. Respect the value in others’ views. When we open ourselves to different perspectives, we foster mutual respect and new insights.
2. Get Curious
Ask meaningful questions. Go beyond the surface to grasp the heart of someone else’s perspective. Curiosity broadens horizons.
3. Acknowledge Common Ground
Even the smallest shared points matter. They create trust and a foundation for future dialogue.
4. Dialogue, Don’t Debate
Move from argument to partnership. Building on others’ ideas shows openness and reinforces connection.
5. Keep the Dialogue Going
Don’t rush to end the dialogue. Keep an open mind and respect different perspectives, allowing space for growth.
Set your intention: bring empathy, curiosity, and courage to every interaction. This is how we build bridges, strengthen relationships, and inspire change. Connection might not happen in a single conversation, so start small—a smile, a compliment, a listening ear. Feeling heard eases tension, and feeling seen can reduce defensiveness. Shifting from asserting rightness to understanding can be transformative.
We stand for kindness, for respect, and for our shared humanity. Yes, it’s hard work. Sometimes, it takes courage to face discomfort. But change starts with each of us. By focusing on our common humanity, we can begin to bridge what divides us.
We’d love your take on this topic… Where has it popped up in your life, what have you tried that worked… or maybe didn’t? Please join the conversation and chime in by emailing [email protected].
Humanity Works because of YOU!
With gratitude,
Kate and Deb
